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~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ A post taken by typicalben which i fucking 100% agree wif him lol!!! and i also wan to take this chance to compare about my friends and their BFs
1. How can you be SO FREAKING SURE that he/she is the one that you're gonna marry? ~ ~ I always roll my eyes damn hard when people around the couple (close friends or relatives), will assume and is so assure, telling me that, the couple is sure going to last till marriage.
Then I always give them replies like..."How can you be that sure? There's still such a long way to go (especially if the couple is still young like us) and anything can happen anytime and there is NO SUCH THING as CONFIRM in a relationship!"And guess what happen in the end to all those couples whom I know with these 'confirmation'?
They eventually broke up!Bah! I cannot stand people who keep say; 'Confirm they will get maried', 'Confirm won't break one lah, their relationship is damn strong'.Confirm this and confrim that!CAUSE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS CONFIRM OR A FOR SURE THING IN A RELATIONSHIP! Anything can happen anytime, don't you get it?Somemore, we're talking about feelings here. ~ ~ ~ 2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend isn't your everything! ~ ~ I also cannot stand people who are too dependent or too sticky to their another half and have to always be together NO MATTER WHAT!
Going out with friends, ask him/her along! Going out with family, ask him/her along! Going out to party, ask him/her along!
No matter what kind of occasions or even if you're meeting up with your different groups of your friends, you also want your boyfriend to be with you and to go with you! (I said boyfriend cause usually girls are the one who is like that than the guys).
I mean why can't you give yourself a break from your partner?!Doesn't mean you have to bring him or be together with him for every occasions or event you're attending right!
I'm totally disappointed with a friend who actually decided not to attend some event (which is important to me) because he/she can't bring the partner along for it as the guest list is fixed and it's only for invited guest! I mean so much for being friends with the person and we're pretty much close last time lor!And all these leads to another point..... ~ ~ ~***really agree with point 2 lol y? ok i've been going out wif 2 friends and their BF together but here is the diffrence la lets name them 'A' and 'B'. 'A' almost alot of outing la, slacking with friends la sure comfirm will have the BF come along wan and even once there is a outing with the 2 of them and wif her sister and the 2 loving couple jux go their own seprate ways lol... like we are strangers la....and sometime it really is irratating jux to see the face of her BF la!!!! Then they keep i touch you here you touch me there like their next step is going to be sex lol.... ~ ~ and 'B' she also will call me out together wif her BF also but at least she got the heart to ask another friend along to accompany me so i wont feel that sian and even though i am alone with the two loving couples they still try their best to entertain me, and i am glad that both are willing to tell me wad they face like I'm a counselor la so at least going out with them make me forget that they are actually a couple lol***~ ~ ~ ~ 3. If you treat your partner as your everything, you're losing more things than you know. ~ ~ I know and understand your love one is important to you, but FRIENDS IS REALLY IMPORTANT AS WELL!As important as your partner or can be more important!
You'll never know when your relationship will turn sour or comes to an end and the people who will be supporting you will be your friends and family! But people now are neglecting friends because of their partner (as referred back to point 2, being too dependent/sticky to one another), and when broke up with their partner.. they are gonna suffer cause they found out that their friends won't be there with or for them anymore!
I mean if you choose your partner over your friends always, even though your friends will feel okay about it but you guys will eventually not be that close anymore and stuff.There's alot of cases like that!Too many people putting their partner over and on top of everything and when losing them in the end, they all went insane! ~ ~** seriously for point 3 i think if let say 'A' break up wif her BF i think i will be more happy than feeling sorry for her lol...is like her BF is like a jerk lol, i once ask her to go out with just me and her and the BF die die wan to come along and when i go his facebook u know wad he write? he says: "I am so kelian my girl friend want to be with her friend and dont want to play game with me sob sob" lol see how her BF don wanface lol ~ ~ and even though i still think 'B' and her BF will last very long but let say la hor LET SAY AR!!! they break i still think i will be very good friends with them.**~ ~ ~ 4. Special occaison should be celebrated with friends as well! ~ ~ I find not very right, if every (and I mean EVERY) special occasion, you only celebrate with your partner and no one else!Other than Valentine Day, other special days like Christmas or NYE you should allow your partner to go celebrate with his/her friends as well!
Cause it's kinda sad that (okay, I've to say this again)...If you guys suddenly break up, you'll feel even more lonely or feel even more sad if you have to go through it alone!I reckon you guys will think that this won't happen, but this really will do happen for some people! Cause when they're in relationship, they will really neglect their friends or so. Don't think they will have the courage or face to even find back their friends when they broke up with their partner! ~ ~ ~**yup this is another reason why i am not contacting A right now her mind is all about bf, Bf and BF almost 98% of the time i see her is always wif her BF she aways say that to her friends/family will be number 1 and i can see she really mean it in the family section but wad about friends? seriously speaking actually i'm not the only person saying that some of our friends are also saying this but not saying out names as i wanna protect them. ~ ~ and for B even though i never hear her saying friends 1st but i can see that she seriously treasure her friend very much la and normally wad she say she will do it lol...so i think this is why sometimes she have positive feedback from other friends too~**
5. Don't say you're gonna break with with him/her, cause you're not gonna do it! ~ ~ This is what I always hear from my friends, that they're going to break up with their partner BUT THEY ALWAYS JUST SAY ONLY!A few times of that is okay, but too much or always saying it is NOT.It's pretty much annoying!!! You're never gonna break up no matter what and no matter how mean they treat you, so don't just say it! And advices given to them are no much of uses too, cause they don't really bother to listen. ~ ~ ~ 6. Your partner shouldn't be controlling you!You ain't a dog or a robot! ~ ~ As simple as that!You must still do what you want to do and not because of your partner, you restrict yourself from doing it!You live for yourself, and not him/her! ~ THE END ~ ~ haiz...anyway love is such a strange thing la...it also sometimes harms a friendship and sometimes have a new friendship too......lol
Sunday, March 21, 2010
-8:23 PM
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ haiz!!!! ~ ~ actually i was suppose to be on 3 days leave during the school holidays de then i also though i could enjoy it very much but didn't really enjoy it at all...but at least i think i rest alot liao...rest until i don feel like going camp la!!!!! FUCK!!!! ~ ~ ~ but i seriously don understand my boss la.....if he wanna ask me something why don't he jux call me personaliy!!! yes! there is a 50:50 chance that i wont pick up but then why must call Alan & Gabriel to call lol....they are not your 'Personal Assitant' they are not a phone operator lol.... ~ ~ ~ but i can only think of one think is that he wan me to hate them ba i suppose cause on the first day of my leave i already get 8 bloody phone calls liao but then lol.....YOUR PLAN FAIL :p !!! ~ ~ but also wanna say sorry to Alan la...i think now the office/store also in a big mess cause of me la!!! SORRY!!! ~ ~ ~ anyway this few days i took this time to go visit old friends and my passion of hair-dressing is getting much stronger liao....maybe if my working sechdule in camp turns to be better maybe i will consider going to apply for part time courses in hair dressing ba...
me and Yi-ting(above pic).... actually i can sense her stress-ness in kimarie la...but i know she is strong enough to battle this stress lol...now aays the young people hor really is a headache la!!! ~ ` ~ ~
me and ling long(below pic) to gif ying ling face i promise to accompany her to club lol....she this stoopid woman call me twice when i am sleeping la!!! but then i think clubbing really don suit me la....i prefer KTV!!! but it was fun chatting wif her friends la as that time the 1st time we meet i was like a 100 years old demon like dat ~ ~ ` ~ and some pictures i took when i bo-liao(nothing to do) but actually is wan to save my cosmetics la ha ha ha is like put so heavy make-up then like dat wash away without taking a picture like quite wasteful lol
speaking about make-up lol....i think luckily i went to see a doctor to gif me medcicne for my face or now i will go and burn my whole face lol cause recently i never remove my make-up properly la....thank goodness my face condition still ok la ha ha ha...
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haiz and recently i think my life is like a drama la...lol haiz but really thanks to my family that they are aways on my side la....
